“The people we meet along the way”
Over the past four years in North Carolina, I’ve learned a lot about friendship. I’ve learned that not all friendships last—and that’s okay. Some are meant to teach us something, while others are built to last a lifetime. I’ve learned what it means to be a good friend, and just as importantly, how to choose the people you surround yourself with.
One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is that making friends requires effort. The energy you put into building connections is often mirrored back in the authenticity of the friendships you form. I feel truly lucky to say that I’m surrounded by many talented, supportive, and generous people. Getting involved at UNC is how I’ve met some wonderful people and created lasting bonds.
At Carolina, one special thing I’ve noticed is how even brief encounters can leave a lasting impact. You might only spend a semester in class—or even a single night—with someone, but the community here is built on kindness, support, and a shared passion for being a Tar Heel.
One story that stands out is how I made my very first friend at UNC. It was the first day of classes, and I’d received an email about a breakfast and chat at the Hussman Career Center. Normally, I’m someone who’s comfortable blending in—just going to class, listening, and staying under the radar. But that morning, I stepped out of my comfort zone and went.
At the breakfast, a girl sitting next to me started asking me questions about myself. We chatted until I realized I needed to get to class—and as it turned out, so did she. We were headed to the same place. We sat together, and soon realized we also shared the next class… which ended up being the hardest course I took at UNC.
Having her there—someone to collaborate and communicate with—was invaluable. Over the years, we’ve supported each other through our wins, and offered each other a listening ear during tough times.
Thank you, Carolina, for bringing me a true blue (Carolina blue) friend.
